Monday, 2 December 2013

The perfect guy.



A hypothetical concept from some romantic cheesy novel that has managed to ruin every girl's relationship.

 As cynical as it sounds, one can never find the PERFECT guy, you just find a guy who is imperfectly perfect and fall in love for reasons unknown. 

 Don't keep looking for a perfect guy. The guy of your life will meet you when you least expect it. Someday, somewhere at the right place, at the right time, you'll find him, the-not-so-perfect-but-yet-so-lovable kind of a guy.

 The guy who'll treat you the way you should be treated, who'll never let you deal with problems alone, who may not always say the right things; but things just seem to be right when you're with him, he may not know how to dance or play a guitar; but he'll know how to pull the strings of your heart and how to make your heartbeats dance, he'll call you beautiful even when you're in your pajamas, He'll sing for you, even if he sounds like a dying whale, he'll keep his word, his promises. He'll be your rock. He may screw up once in a while, but that just proves that he's not a fictitious character, and is for real.

 He'll be that one person who'll fall in love with things that you hate about yourself. He'll not be able to solve all your problems, but he'll be there to hear you rant about stuff, he'll listen, he'll care. He'll know those little-things about you, that no one else notices. He'll look at you with a twinkle in his eyes, he'll look at you with, nothing, but pure adoration. He will never judge you. He will change your life for the better, make you a better version of yourself. He'll give you the love you deserve. He'll break your walls that you've built really high, and come and get you. He'll earn and deserve your love and respect.

 He may not be the rich, but he'll have a heart of gold, he'll show you the world through his eyes and make you realize that you're the most beautiful person, there is out there. He'll be there to catch you when you break down. He'll know your weaknesses, but never take undue advantage of the fact. He'll respect you like he respects his parents, he'll treat your family and close friends as his own, he'll stand up for you, he'll be the first one to protect you, take care of you, understand you and most of all love "THE REAL YOU" and be proud of you!

Things will get messed up at times, but the good will always outnumber the bad. Somewhere in your gut, you'll know  he's your imperfect knight in shining armor. He's the love of your life. 

 Don't compare what you have with what others have. Every story looks beautiful until you've stepped into the protagonist's shoes. What you have is, your own love story and despite its ups and downs, it's beautiful, surreal maybe. Save it, treasure it, for everyone does not get this chance. Don't squander what you have over things that hardly matter.There's no "PERFECT" or "IDEAL" guy. In true sense, everyone has flaws and no one is perfect, you may find some xyz guy to be perfect, not because he actually is, but because unknowingly you've fallen for his imperfections!

 So, don’t worry about him not being perfect, don't worry about your friends not liking him, he loves you and that is a reason enough to be with him. Being with the-not-so-ideal-but-so-perfect kind of guy for you.

 Don't jump into a relationship, only because you want to be in a relationship, think it over. Your heart is not a toy to be played with, give it over to the someone who deserves it. Don't step into one, until you're absolutely sure and you're mentally ready to share your space with someone. You are responsible for your actions, so evaluate everything. No matter how long your relationship will last, it'll change you, change you're perspective about things, about people, it'll change a hell lot and no matter how hard you try, things won't go back to the way they were before.

 It's a lot more different than disney movies and love stories you watch and read. If you're ready for the real thing, then go for it. 

 P.S It's not only about how a guy treats his girl, it's also about how the girl reciprocates.


 Keep smiling! :D







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